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Suffering in Relationships
Do you feel like you’re doing all the work in your relationship while your partner seems to be coasting through life unaware that there...
Mar 132 min read
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When We Want Different Things
In our 2018 book, The Couples Rulebook, we laid out the eight needs that most people have when it comes to relationships. If you’ve read...
Mar 132 min read
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What is Trust
Studies on trust show that it is really two things - competence and integrity. Competence in a relationship means our partner is good at...
Mar 132 min read
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Will A New Partner Fix Everything
Major corporations know a secret that you should know in your relationship. Like all good secrets, the corporate secret was learned the...
Mar 132 min read
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Not Every Relationship Should Be Saved
If you follow our blog, you’ll know that we talk a lot about reconnecting relationships. You’ll find all kinds of ways that we say it:...
Mar 132 min read
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Can't Afford Relationship Counseling?
Relationship Coaching is quick and effective to steer relationships back on course. With the cost of divorce escalating and the increased...
Oct 13, 20231 min read
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PRIDE in Relationships
Pride gets in the way
Dec 6, 20203 min read
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Growing Old Together
MISSING: My Kind, Loving Husband Like so many clients, Linda* (not her real name) arrived at her appointment with only the feeling that...
Apr 13, 20203 min read
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Trust, Security And Fear In Relationships
Trust, insecurity and fear in relatinoships.
Apr 13, 20201 min read
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In Love Or Loving Them
Being in love versus loving someone.
Apr 13, 20202 min read
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Love Is A Choice
There’s a myth out there that relationship happiness is contingent on finding “the one” or finding our “soulmate”. Unfortunately these...
Apr 13, 20201 min read
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Tell-Tale Signs of Toxic Relationship
If you're afraid to tell your friends or family what's happening in your relationship... it's probably toxic. If you lie about things...
Apr 13, 20201 min read
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Teach A Man How To Love You
Hearts take responsibility for love and romance in the relationship.
Apr 13, 20202 min read
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Emotions Are Messy
Love is easy. Relationships not so much. Emotions are messy.
Apr 13, 20201 min read
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Rule 5: Communicate Expectations
If you’ve already read The Couples Rulebook, then you might remember the story of Rita and Larry. They were the couple who had a...
Mar 3, 20202 min read
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Rule 11 - Couples Rulebook
Remember the “seven-year itch?” Not the 1955 movie with Marilyn Monroe, but the old psychological theory that explained why the average...
Mar 3, 20203 min read
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Rule 3 - We All Have Needs
In The Couples Rulebook we lay out the eight needs that most people have when it comes to relationships. If you’ve read the book already,...
Mar 3, 20202 min read
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